Chapter 7: Sticky Situations
- If newcomers don't connect with someone soon, they'll be gone in four to six months.
- Too many churches fail to recognize the importance of plugging in second-time guests and new attenders.
- The more friends a person has in a congregation, the less likely that person is to become inactive or leave the church. Our need for human connection is undeniable.
- You can't just hope people will make friends in the church. You must encourage it, plan for it, structure for it, and facilitate it.
- If you want your second-timers to stick, you must understand that relationships are the glue.
- Three sticky situations: growth groups, fun events and service teams
- Research shows that new people must make friends within four to six months, or they will not stick.
- Fun activities give people the chance to get to know each other in a more social environment, which leads to deeper connections and relationships.
- Service teams provide an ideal opportunity for your second-time guests to form relationships with other people in the church.
- People's most basic need in life is relationship.
- People connect to a church when they develop meaningful friendships and are trusted with ministry responsibility. Newcomers need something to do and someone to know.
Chapter 8: Taking Ownership
- Responsibility and ownership go hand in hand.
- Responsibility precedes ownership, and ownership precedes membership.
- If your newcomers do not find relationships and take responsibility within the church, they will not stay long.
- The goal we have for each new person at New Day is threefold: 1) We want them to return, 2) We want them to build relationships, 3) We want to give them responsibility
- As your volunteers serve you and the church, you are serving them by providing them with an outlet to take on responsibility and become more deeply connected.
- Allow people to belong before they believe.
Chapter 9: Full Circle
- Membership class is the commencement ceremony for your assimilation system.
- Every new beginning comes from some other beginning's end. ~Seneca
Conclusion
- The Principle of Spiritual Readiness: God will never give you more than you are prepared to receive.
- God works in conjunction with our level of readiness.
- You are speaking something to your first-time guests already. What are they hearing?
- The Kingdom only grows by one person at a time. So focus on the one, and the one will turn into many.
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